setting boundaries

 i like to help everyone the best that i can... and i know the few people that i do tend to help they are grateful for it but lately its been feelings like more of a chore than anything... it's to the point anymore that the person doesn't even ask me if i can help they just automatically assume that i will drop everything and help them. like i get it you need help with something but that doesn't mean you just demand it.. i want to stop helping because i feel disrespected but i know if i stop helping them like they want then i will be the one who is the bad guy which sucks because it's like you can't just message me and tell me i am going to be doing something or you and then not even ask if i can do it.. like yeah you beat around the bush asking my plans and things like that but even when i tell you it's like you could care less and start making plans over what i have already made. and it lowkey pisses me off to the extreme because how can you be so inconsiderate of others when you are wanting to just use them for one a place to go or two a ride somewhere it gets to the point where people don't even want to bother to help because it isn't even helping them anymore. so, from now on i am done helping people because no one seems to help me when i am in need its always i can see what i can do or i don't know i am not feeling the best. it is always some type of excuse when i am in need and i am truly over it because why you got to be a stuck up bitch and think it should always be about you and when it comes to you you want people to jump for you but when someone needs something for you you take your time because you don't care. and truthfully helping you drains me because I've never in my life have seen someone with so little motive to want to help themselves instead you use all your energy on making excuses instead of stop depending on others to figure out your life... you wont always have someone to help you because at this point you are more worthless than the people who stand on the corner begging for help and money because at least they are out doing something.