it always seems to be a debate on when someone says NO do they really mean it.... this has been going on for generations all over the world where women fear for their lives because when they tell certain "men" no they don't take it as no and more as a challenge. they act like its a game they are going to win no matter what even if the girl says no. this could be from sex to a hug, to a text. it could be literally anything, and it seems like the ones who don't take NO as an answer are the ones who think they cant be stopped even by the law.. and lets be real the law anymore doesn't help they just make it easier for the perp to get away with acting unmorally.
so what does a girl have to do now a days? we change our numbers we sometimes even move. sometimes we have to even quit our jobs or get on another shift. other times we have carry a gun, pepper spray, knives, safety keychains to the point were most women don't even want to leave their homes. we shouldn't have to go to such extreme levels to protect ourselves after we already said no.
social media doesn't make it any better though. yes you can go and delete someone but doesn't mean they cant still message you, so you go to block them and think ok now i will be at peace.. hahaha jokes on you because they just added you on another one of just many profiles they have. so now you have to worry every day about being stalked and worrying if one of these random accounts are theirs or their friends and family stalking you for them not realizing how much stress they are putting on you all because you told someone no
it is sad to say but it is easier to just to leave one of there accounts unblocked so they can stalk without thinking you know when you really do know and you just keep a paper trail so you can finally do something about it.
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