playing with fear

 have you ever made friends with someone and only reason you stayed friends was because you used their fears against them? no.. are you sure you haven't? really sit there and think real hard about it. because i bet you that you have and you haven't even realized it .. we all have truthfully one way or another just some people are aware they are doing it while others are blindly doing it. you always see in movies how the bad guys us a trauma bond to make the people stay with them because they themselves are afraid of being alone. so they use the other persons fears and torcher them till they don't need them anymore and they find their next victim... i have a friend just like this and even when you tell them how they are acting they act like you are in the wrong for telling them they are being a bad person. they try to make you feel bad for calling them out on their actions because they never take responsibility and try to blame me for how they feel once i tell them i am not ok with the way you are treating or talking to me. they begin to start to gaslight and try to act all types of crazy and put on a show and make post on social media directed towards me but wont tag me in them and its threats clear as day and they laugh at it as its a joke that the way they are acting is not acceptable and trying to make me feel crazy in the long run. but that's not even the worst part they will post threats and all types of crazy post and that same day message me as if they did nothing wrong and i was just making it all up in my head which is scaring that they are that disconnected with reality that they think that can do that and i would still want to be their friend it is mind boggling because if they were really my friend than my feelings would have been taken in consideration and they never were from the .beginning it was always about them and that's how it only could be. they would even go as far as threating people who wanted to be my friend all because they didn't want to share my attention to where even if i was to get a message from someone else they would make a big deal about it and start saying uncalled for things about me that weren't even true and start making stuff up in their head and trying to force them to be true and trying to force me to agree they are true when infact they are far from the truth.. i could never tell if they were just that fucked up in the head or if something else was going on to where they wanted me all to themselves and no one else could even talk to me it was sickening to say the least and very draining because they could have other friends but i better not think about it otherwise it's like their crazy side showed to were you didn't know if you were even safe for your life because that's how insane this person would act and even when i would try to stop being their friend it would tend to get worst don't ask me how because i don't know all i know is it got even more toxic and i feel like it will never end because they don't care when i say we aren't friends anymore they laugh at me like i just told the best joke they ever heard in their lives.... i feel like i will never be able to be free from this person no matter the extent i would go they wouldn't care and would still continue to make my life a living hell